Enchanted Charts

“Be open to new ideas of what you want your life to be like and embrace them. Questioning our values occasionally is healthy and helps us grow and develop.

You may feel an urge to branch out on your own, following your own path to success. What success means to you is something to think about now, along with your ideas of security and stability.

Changing things around your house to better align with how you want to live is important too. Even if it’s quite different from what you always thought you wanted before. Try not to be too upset if others you live with don’t share your enthusiasm. Change can be difficult. Have a sincere talk with them about what it means to you, and be okay with compromising — at least a little.”

“When you’re moving intently towards your goals keep the blinders on. This is not the time to be distracted. Focus on doing what you’re doing.

Don’t make changes right now if you don’t have to. Don’t re-think how to do things better. Use your energy to make progress as you have been. There are other times to figure out better ways and more efficient approaches. Right now, go on auto-pilot and use your energy as best you can without changing course.

Record new ideas you have so they’re not lost, but then shelve them for a couple days. If people want to talk about their new ideas defer them if you can. If you need to talk to people about changes, do so with patience and tolerance… and take the earliest opportunity to defer deep discussions.”

“Say yes to opportunities that come your way. Be open to trying new things and you never know what benefits may result!

Learn about other cultures and other viewpoints. Open your mind and take in some of the amazing things out there in the world that you haven’t yet been exposed to. Understanding different perspectives makes us stronger.

Embrace the fun in everything you’re doing! The silver linings of even the darkest of clouds shine a little more brightly — watch for them! And help others see them too.

Pick up a new skill! Start learning how to do something you’ve always had an interest in but never pursued. Learning now will come easier and be more enjoyable.”

“You will have a tendency to fall in love with something intensely. You’ll see a piece of art that really speaks to you and you must have it! Or you’ll see a new home decor idea that will just be perfect for your place. Similarly, you may see someone who ticks all the boxes and go head over heels for a bit. This could be a romance or perhaps a new or rekindled, close friendship.

Your feelings tend to be amplified right now. They are also quite changeable. If you’re happy, you’re really happy and if you’re sad… well, you’re more likely to feel angry at whatever or whoever did something that might normally make you feel sad.

There will be a lot of ups and downs but most of this turmoil will go unseen. Unless things are really serious, you’ll be able to keep your composure.”

“You can see which of your dreams and goals will really bring you what you desire. Not every goal is worth following through on. You only have so many hours in a day and only so much energy to apply towards accomplishing things. You have to make choices about what goals are just generally good for you versus ones that lead to something you really want to have in your life.

Trying to do too much leads to frustration, dispersed efforts, and little to no benefits as a result. This is the time to align your dreams and goals with your desires, and set up a plan to accomplish the ones that mean the most to you.”

“You know the people in your life that lift you up. The ones that make you become a better version of yourself and make positive changes. You also know the ones who don’t. Where you can, make changes to keep only those who are positive influences in your life and cut the others.

This can be hard as you are likely cutting ties that you’re used to — even if they’re not good for you. Be brave enough to choose the people and things that really make you better over those that just make you feel better. Pull the weeds from your life’s garden so you can get the sunshine, air, water, and space you need to grow.”

“If you’re in a romantic relationship, take a good look at where things are working and where they’re not. Is there commitment from both people? Will it last? It’s a good time to figure out if you need to invest further, possibly with some adjustments to make things better emotionally, or if it’s time to make larger changes.

For close friends, look at how you interact and what you both do. Are those things bringing you closer together? If not, spend some time talking about ideas that could bring more fun, help, and closeness to your friendship.

In your household, look at the house rules and how they’re affecting the way everyone feels about their home and each other. Are the rules bringing everyone a sense of comfort, safety, and a loving environment? Rules and systems are rarely picked as the reason for a happy home, but they contribute more than most family members realize. Take a look at yours and see how they’re affecting the family’s emotional relationships. Too strict and people don’t feel loved and valued. Too loose and they don’t learn how to interact well with others or self-regulate. What changes do you see as being helpful for your family?”