This is a time of high emotion, and with the Sun in Pisces, you tend to be very aware of other people’s moods and feelings, and also be rather reactive to them too. Emotionally however, this Full Moon in Virgo brings you to a different place. There is an energy around taking a very practical approach to these emotions and their impact on you and your life.
A Ritual to Create Your Own Stability.
For this you will need a small piece of paper and a nice-sized rock; easy to pick up but heavy to hold. An out-of-the-way spot, ideally outside where the moon shines is good too.
Start by considering the person or influence that has the most emotionally disruptive and chaotic impact on your feelings. The one that shows up unexpectedly with demands on your attention. The one that surprises you with unpredictably caring or hurtful actions. The one that suddenly disrupts your plans or goals or dreams without even realizing they’re doing it. It’s like a little bomb going off every time they show up in your life.
It could be a family member, friend, or coworker, or perhaps something arising from the kind of situation you’re in like a job role or a living space, or perhaps even from within yourself.
Consider that troublesome influence for a quiet moment and think about the feelings it creates within you.
Now write your feelings down on a small slip of paper. Or draw them. Or scribble and scratch them. Represent your feelings when that chaotic influence is brought to you on that paper.
Now look at what you’ve put on the paper and see it for what it really is. It’s your reaction.
Now consider what the influence that makes you react that way really is. Maybe it’s someone else’s problems projected towards you. Maybe it’s heartbreak or loss that keeps knocking you off balance. Maybe it’s someone else’s wrong perspective or lack of understanding.
No matter what it is, spend the time until you can see it clearly, separate from your feelings. Look at it. Feel it. Label it and know it. It doesn’t get to surprise you or keep you off balance any more. It’s still there, but you’re taking control of how it affects you. You know it now.
The rock is your stability. It’s okay to be affected, to be angry, to be hurt, to be sad. You will feel these things but they’re not going to shock or surprise you anymore. You won’t be put off balance anymore.
Go outside when the moon is up. Put your paper, on the ground, ideally in an out-of-the-way spot where the moonlight shines. Then set your stability, your rock, down on top of the paper and leave it there. The rock never needs to move for knowing what you’re facing is a powerful step towards control.
And soon, in the near future, the paper will be gone.
While other planets in your chart contribute greatly to who you are, the sign your Sun is in represents a core nature of your personality. It’s where you have your strongest sense of personal identity. It’s what and how you pursue all things in your life and is central to how you approach your career and everything else you work towards and accomplish. Your Sun Sign isn’t restrictive in any way, but it influences how you go about your pursuits.
Sun Sign of Pisces
Having your Sun in Pisces makes you caring, imaginative, sensitive to others, and very aware of the “mood” of any room you’re in. Perhaps you’ve been called a “dreamer” before, and you are naturally creative and possibly artistic if you developed the skills to express your creativity in that way.
Caring for others comes naturally. You usually know quite clearly what others are feeling. Your desire to help others is strong and you may need to learn how to say “no” sometimes. Giving too much can be a risk for your generous nature.
Partners for Pisces
Pisces needs a partner in their life that shows them heartfelt care and love. Of course we all do, but Pisces in particular needs this as they so often give so much of themselves that sometimes they have difficulty learning to receive that same kind of care from others. They also benefit from a partner that brings a grounding influence, without callously trampling on their dreams and feelings.
Strong matches for Pisces:
Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn
Neutral matches for Pisces:
Aries, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Pisces
Challenging matches for Pisces:
Gemini, Sagittarius, Aquarius
So does this mean a Pisces – Gemini relationship is doomed? Of course not. We are far more than just our Sun Signs, and we all learn different lessons in our lives that can make any pairing work in the right circumstances. The above is just a guide to where there are commonly easier and harder aspects to a relationship.
Can a Challenging Match Work?
Let’s consider that Pisces – Gemini couple. Like Pisces, Gemini is changeable and fluid in their approaches to things in life. This similarity is actually one of the main reasons problems can arise. Typically Pisces finds better relationships with those who are different than themselves. But that said, with the right placements of other planets and life experiences, a Gemini and a Pisces could be true soulmates. If they find a way together to make the Gemini more open to what they see as Pisces “neediness” (loves deep, emotional connections) and make Pisces more understanding of Gemini’s divided attention (“yes, of course I love you, but there’s this bright, shiny object over there that I simply must investigate”) they can truly have a love of the ages.
Whenever we talk about Sun Sign compatibility, it’s always a highly generalized discussion. It’s similar to how your Sun Sign alone doesn’t define you as a person. All the planets work together in their placements to describe you as a whole. While only your full birth chart has this information, looking at just the Sun Signs is still a quick “rough guide” to which relationships come with what kinds of harmony and challenge.
This new moon in Aquarius is special. New moons are always good for new beginnings and finding new ways of expressing, feeling, and living your true self. However this one just joined up with a very rare and powerful grouping of planets called a stellium. A stellium, like this powerful Aquarian Stellium, won’t happen again until 2040 — and it won’t have the new moon involved, nor come with such opportunity for supporting personal transformation.
We have a truly once-in-a-lifetime opportunity during this new moon to receive support and help in becoming who we wish to be. To make the changes, we need to establish new patterns of behavior, renewed relationships with those we cherish, and new ways of living with the world around us in a supportive and helpful way. This isn’t just about deciding to change. It’s actually changing your emotional relationship with the habits, people, and things you want in your life, as well as the ones you don’t. Changing yourself and your life starts from within, and must happen before your life and the world around you will become what you wish them to be.
What To Do
Here is our transforming ritual for this very special new moon in Aquarius. It’s a kind of meditation, but don’t think for a moment that it’s passive. We usually have pretty straightforward rituals to make the most of the astrological influences we feel are important, but this new moon deserves extra attention. It’s great potential to bring change for the better made us want to be sure you could get the most advantage you can. Through this practice you will be actively transforming yourself, and while it’s not easy to do, it can have profound effects on your life.
Read through this meditation completely before trying it.
When you have some uninterrupted time, find yourself a comfortable place to sit or lay down. Spend a moment relaxing your mind, then your body. Think about each thought buzzing in your head, “I need to pick the kids up…”, “I have to remember to tell Joe about that new request…”, “Oh, I don’t know what I’m making for dinner tonight yet…” — let them all go. Those thoughts and demands will still be there when you’re done. Think about each part of your body, starting with your toes and slowly working your way up to the top of your head. Feel each part and as you do, let it relax.
Picture everything in your life around you
When you’re calm, begin to focus on everything around you in your life. Not your to-do list, but the hobbies, sports, job, family, friends, co-workers, pets, car, possessions, food, house, decorations, yard… The good, the bad, the unknown, the unsettling, the loving, the disruptive, the stresses, the joys, the happy moments, the sad, the people in your life… everything. Picture it all around you, floating and slowly swirling.
Focus on trying to keep everything and everyone in your mind at once. Take your time. There’s a lot to focus on. Watch as it all floats and swirls slowly around you. Pay attention to each person or thing and hold it in your mind with all the others as a collective, swirling cloud of everything in your life.
Cocooned within your current world
Keep this cloud in your mind, and imagine it beginning to swirl faster. Now faster. Around and above and below you. Faster still until it all begins to blend together as a semi-solid blur. You still know what each thing is, but you can’t see things individually anymore. Now, though still moving fast, it shrinks closer to you, appearing more and and more solid. It doesn’t touch you, but it moves closer still and closes around you, stopping moving as it forms together into a solid featureless shell, blocking the light, cocooning you.
You are comfortable in this warm, dark place, for you know you are separate from everything around you. You are still aware of everything that makes up that cocoon and now, fully aware within it, with everything stopped, and nothing else to distract you, you begin to explore.
See everything clearly – No outside pressures
Think of how you are with all these things, all these influences and parts of your life. In the quiet, some things will become clear very quickly. Things, activities, people, or events that make your heart swell and bring you joy, satisfaction, or fulfillment. Others that make you feel diminished, upset, or concerned. Others — most — may be more complicated. Or at least they may seem so. When being really honest with ourselves, and when considering only what truly makes us more of who we are and want to be, things can become much clearer. This isn’t about what others want you to want, or what others think you should be. It’s only YOU in here. Look at everything and see it through only your eyes. Through the eyes of who you know you want to be… of who you know you truly are.
Change to be who you truly are
Feel the power of that great collection of planets, focused through the new moon’s emotional and personal energy, breeze around the cocoon and then, slowly at first, seeping through it and through you. The power of change and new possibilities made real. Then more flows through, without affecting the cocoon, but breezing around and through you.
Now change. Take the things you want more of, identify the things you want to be different. See the things that are missing and you want to be in your life, and the things that you want gone completely. Things you cherish and want more of, things you want to stay just the way they are.
Use this power to focus and picture how you will be the changes you want in your life. Feel the strength you have to get rid of what you don’t want around you. Feel the strength to create and attract what you want to be present. Are you kinder to others? Are you more expressive with gratitude? Are you more supportive to this person you love, and perhaps less indulgent with someone who pulls you down? You are changing. Love and embrace even closer the things you cherish, and feel how you will be to change things you want to be different.
Look at everything in your life. Feel how you will be with it. Does it stay or does it go? Is it a part of you or is it something you no longer desire? Rediscover and re-invent who you are to bring about the changes in your world. Changes that will bring you the most joy.
Make these changes within yourself real
Keep all this in your mind at once, just as you kept your old world in mind when forming the cocoon. Create your new self and your new world within the cocoon of what was. See the changes in how you are. The way you act. The things you do. The emotions you feel. The things that will be your world. The people that will be around you.
Capture this all-encompassing experience in your mind. Yourself and your world that is to become. You are that change.
Indulge in this feeling and vision. Use the power flowing through the cocoon of what used to be to solidify this new you. Make this real.
You have the power to be who you are.
Now, consider the cocoon of what was. How different it felt.
Break through the cocoon, transformed
When you’re ready, summon all the energy of your new self and break through that cocoon. You don’t need it anymore. You have your new world to live in.
Those around you have not transformed, but you have. Keep that moment of transformation in your mind and know that the changes you make within yourself bring the changes to the world around you.
Live your new self and your world will change.
Reinforce this new you every night
Each night, revisit the changes you’ve set as you drift off to sleep. Remember and feel what it was to have all your chosen world within you in that cocoon. Remember breaking through your old world and bringing it with you, for you are that change.
There’s quite the gathering going on in the sky right now and there’s really no way to ignore it.
What is it?
This started with the Great Conjunction of 2020, and now we have not only Jupiter and Saturn together in Aquarius, but also the Sun, Mercury, and now Venus coming to join the party too. And let’s not forget Pluto who’s hanging out right nearby at the edge of Capricorn. All of these planets coming together is called a stellium, which inevitably brings a lot of focused energy in one particular area.
In this case, it’s all happening in Aquarius so it’s going to be about changes and finding new ways of doing things. It will emphasize being open to experimenting and exploring unconventional approaches to problems. Problems that affect not only ourselves, but our societies as a whole. This is a very Big Picture moment and it’s time to get things straightened out and going down a better path for everyone.
This will not be without challenges however. We have Mars and Uranus in Taurus squaring this stellium creating some resistance to action and change. Mercury is also retrograde until February 21st, requiring us to be careful with our thoughts and how we communicate with others.
But this collection of planets will not be denied. Jupiter wants to help, Saturn demands progress, Venus pursues improvement and Mercury retrograde brings deep thought. Combining Pluto in Capricorn’s energy for large-scale, practical transformation with all the others focused in Aquarius, we have all the tools and the energy we need to overcome obstacles and improve.
What to Do
Use this time to come up with new ideas and experiment with how things are done to find ways that provide the most benefit. You shouldn’t worry too much about getting things exactly right. Just try things. Explore options and experiment. This is a time to learn so you can get things set up perfectly once things are all figured out.
Oh, and this stellium will also become even MORE intense next week with the new moon joining in as well!